Having it all

Having it all

I don’t think you can have it all. I believe it’s a myth. Those were my thoughts until a friend mentioned a different point of view a few days ago. “You are thinking of having it all at some specific point in time. I think you can have it all...
What drives you?

What drives you?

What drives you to do what you do? What gets you out of bed in the morning – besides your responsibilities? What keeps you moving forward to achieve what you have set out to achieve? What is the deep push to do what you do? Remember Your Why I know that there are...
Get out, shame!

Get out, shame!

Shame doesn’t make any sense. It’s not rational, yet it is real. Difference between guilt and shame You didn’t get it done, you forgot, or you put it off. Then you get called out for it. You didn’t do it. Ok, you didn’t do it. You may feel guilty about it; you take...
Ditch fitting in for true belonging

Ditch fitting in for true belonging

The Merriam-Webster dictionary definition for belonging is a close or intimate relationship as in a sense of belonging. To be a part of something is a driving force for a lot of us; to find the group or tribe that will give us a sense of belonging. It is hard-wired,...
The Key to processing Grief: Vulnerability

The Key to processing Grief: Vulnerability

The V word, I joke when I present vulnerability, my nemesis. Like in a lot of jokes, there is something true about it. It is so easy to fall back into old habits. Sometimes, when someone asks, “How are you?” Fine wants to slip out. It would be so much easier to say...