Failing is not a bad word!

Failing is not a bad word!

From an early age, we are taught that failure is something that shouldn’t happen. In school, we do everything we can do not to fail. Winning is celebrated in sports and awards are given out for the best grades. However, I have yet to see an award ceremony that...
Emotional Triggers: What sets you off?

Emotional Triggers: What sets you off?

I’ve been giving it a lot of thought about what sets me off. My ex-to-be and I are doing divorce differently; for the most part, we get along though there are still times when he pisses me off. One of my big triggers is that he works around me. I think we have decided...
Are you worth it?

Are you worth it?

Recently, I was asked this question in my business. My answer was yes. The tangible – I have testimonials – and cold hard numbers to back it up. In my business, I know my worth; it really comes down to time and money. I know what my time is worth and I know the...
Enough is enough

Enough is enough

Do you ever wonder why in the world you put up with such bullshit? Day in and day out you just – I will use the statement that I don’t use anymore, except at the gym when referring to water – suck it up. Why in the world do we put up with bullshit? We made a choice,...
Get out, shame!

Get out, shame!

Shame doesn’t make any sense. It’s not rational, yet it is real. Difference between guilt and shame You didn’t get it done, you forgot, or you put it off. Then you get called out for it. You didn’t do it. Ok, you didn’t do it. You may feel guilty about it; you take...